A True Falcon
Linda Burgess laughed when her 12-year-old son told
her he planned to play seventh grade football for Fulmore Middle School, where
he is enrolled in the humanities and law magnet.
He had shown not a scintilla of athletic ability or
curiosity. He was tall and wobbly, and his talents seemed better spent in Boy
Scouts, in the orchestra, in the Episcopal Church as an acolyte.
He had never thrown a football. Ever.
“You’ll get killed,” Linda blurted and might have
protested had her husband, Steve, not intervened.
“It’s going to be OK,” he insisted. “He needs to
play a team sport. Let him try.”
“Fine,” Linda thought. “But he has get in shape
first,” so she signed him up for two weeks with a trainer at a West Austin
country club. If she had hoped he would find it too hot, too sweaty, too
grueling, then she was disappointed. Her son is not a quitter. And so, the
Falcon season began, mostly with Stephen riding the bench as a second or third
string tight end.
Linda didn’t expect him to play at all and was
thrilled that he made it onto the field in every game, not that she had a clue
what he was doing out when he was out there, other than standing around,
“looking adorable,” in her own words.
Despite growing in Shawnee, OK, attending Notre
Dame as an undergraduate and OU for law school, Linda knew next to nothing
about football.
“I knew you had to go 10 yards to get a first
down, and you get four tries,” she admitted. She knew who the quarterback was.
She also knew football players were supposed to hit each other, and her son was
not.
“I kept thinking, ‘He’s gotta be more
aggressive,’” Linda said. “’He’s gotta knock someone over.’”
He never did. Stephen spent a good deal of the
season trying to learn his plays and master the 3-point stance. He didn't catch
a pass, and the team lost far more than they won, but it wasn’t a losing
season, and here’s why: At the beginning of the season, Stephen knew none of
his teammates — mostly South and East Austin neighborhood kids, mostly brown
and black. Lots of free-lunches and lots of issues with test scores. Fulmore
can be rough, especially for a nice boy who plays the bass in the orchestra and
helped the Academic Quiz Bowl team to the 2013 national tournament in Chicago.
Football changed that — at least, it did for
Stephen.
“Without football, he would have never interacted
with kids from that neighborhood,” Linda said. “He did through football. He
wasn’t going to school with kids he had known for years. Just the opposite, and
it was good for him to have to handle all of that.”
It was good for Linda too.
“It made me care for these kids,” she said. “I
didn’t know them or their parents, and without football, I wasn’t going to know
them. They weren’t part of our social circle, and I wasn’t going to meet them
through work.”
Without football, Linda and Steve would have
mingled with the magnet school kids and their parents at random music and
academic events. They would have never met the second-string quarterback’s mom.
They would have neither known nor cared that the school had no football booster
club. They would never appreciate the sacrifices some of these boys make to
play, the sacrifices their parents make to watch them play.
But now, they do. Linda and Steve have become
woven into the fabric of the school. They care about Fulmore, and not just the
magnet program. The whole school.
“I didn’t realize that the Fulmore teachers come
to all the games,” Linda said. “We were able to visit with them outside of the
classroom. And I still can’t believe how excited I was when we finally got
cheerleaders. I participated in every cheer.”
She also took charge of arranging snacks before
games and bought a $70 royal blue rubber stamp the size of a slice of bread —
to stamp all the lunch bags, “Go Falcons.”
She’ll use it again this fall, and she’s thrilled
about that because Stephen briefly flirted with the idea of transferring to a
private school before deciding to return to Fulmore for eighth grade. He’s more
mature, more responsible. He’s spent the past year, tossing the football
around, tucking it under his arm should he ever catch a pass. He’s even ready
to knock someone over. He remains a Falcon because of football.
And Linda says she’s no longer worried about
injuries. Steven is bigger, taller and slightly less wobbly, but things happen.
Oddly enough, one of the Quiz Bowl boys tumbled crossing a Chicago street and
broke his wrist.
And so it goes. The season begins
soon, and the Oklahoma girl, the Notre Dame graduate, the wife of the die-hard
Texas Longhorn fan who barely knows the difference between punt and a pickle
says it can’t get here fast enough.
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